Love or lust 💁🏽

Her,"My man is amazing. It is the most beautiful relationship I have ever had. We made love till morning and it felt so real."

Apart from that sexual connection, do you have any other connection? Can you talk for hours about life, investments, God or any other interesting topic without sex being the center of it all? Can he invest with you just like he "banged" you last night?

A man can have sex with you and not be in love. I don't have anything against your relationship. The reason why marriages fail, according to me is feel more than Companionship we value sex. More than creating a relationship we create bonds which are more sexually related. Whenever you decide to have sex, be it after or before marriage make sure its with someone who values your principles. Someone who adores you. Someone who knows your worth.

Stop creating soul ties every where. Your body is the temple of the holy spirit the Paraclete. Respect your body because you won't receive any other body out here.

YOLO

Live. Love. Laugh.

#Tyner's_Diary

Hello 2020 😍😇🤗

Hello 2020! How are you? I hear you are a new decade, is it true? And you are coming with goodies. 

Damn! Lemme stop being formal with you 2020. So many people have been waiting for a new year  for different reasons. They said you'd take care of their 2019 insecurities, some say you'd give them good relationships while others financial freedom. Well 🤔 I don't get it. What's the hype about a new year?

What life has taught me is you have to start now. No! Don't wait for tomorrow. Don't wait for a new year or a new decade. Boy! You gotta start now and start where you are. Apply for that job! Join that school of your choice! Save up for that investment. Start those prayers and fasting now! And...confuse that babe into marrying you now 😂😂! 

There is never a perfect time. I know some of you have already given up on this year. They are like," Woooii! This is not my year. Look how broke I am in the first few days into the year! I didn't enjoy the new year's eve. I am waiting for 2021." Nigga 😎, its just a bad day not a bad year.

You might have messed up. Or overspent. You might have lost that job opportunity. You may have lost someone very close to you. Maybe they broke up with you. I don't know the situation you are in. But what I know is that, that low moment does not define you. Wake up! Dress up! Chin up. And hit that run way of your life! 

Every morning you wake up from that bed. Its a new hope for you. Its a new beginning. Another chance. Tomorrow is not on your table. But today is all your. Do it now!! Don't say its gonna be next year guys! So what are you going to do in the next 360 days? Waste it? Or just hang around and get yourself into your friends activities. Always the third wheel and being pushed around. 

I am not a motivational speaker. But in my twenty something years in this beautiful planet. I have realized that you can never depend on anyone to push you into doing things. Niqqa! You got to do it yourself. Your best friend, your family, your mentor or your boyfriend. They'd might get tired on the way. Some might become jealous of your achievements and walk out on you. And your attitude might annoy some of them. You only have one cheerleader and that is the man you meet with in the mirror. Support you. Cheer yourself up. Give you a pat on the back. And make 2020 memorable.

And as you work hard to make ends meet. Don't forget you deserve to be happy. Take yourself on dates and bond with you. You got to know yourself more. Because you spend more time with you than with any other person. Speak good words to you. Bless you! You will attract what you give ☺.

Here is a challenge for you. Every morning, look at yourself in the mirror and talk something good about yourself. And if you are scared of the mirror just have few minutes with you. "Are you taking this challenge?" 😂😂😂😂 shit!! I've started a conversation with myself! Sorry yow 😜!

Happy new year 😇!!!

Live. Love. Laugh.

Tyner'sDiary😍

That Push!!

After the 700 days of nJanuary sighs*. 😂😂😂😂 I don't know about you but I think this year January moved very fast I didn't even notice it. Was it really you nJanuary? Or there were confusions somewhere.

Anyway back to business. I know you might have heard this several times. From friends, family, highschool or primary school teachers. They keep saying new year should bring change. So I won't be the first one to talk on this issue. But I hope something in this post gets you on your toes. 😍😍

The year is still fresh. Maybe we had resolutions for 2019. We created them, "maybe" if you have time in your busy schedule (so many of us get consumed in the internet and all) you might have set goals. Yeah! I said it Goals. Are you ready to achieve them? Its February wake up! The time is now. Last month you said you'll start next month. "Njanuary iko tight", " aki niko broke", "manze siko ready."

The time is now. There is no such thing as perfect timing. Rich enough. Intelligent enough.  The perfect time is now. Start today. Start now. Start right where you are, it doesn't matter how small. Don't be consumed and overwhelmed by the noise outside here. Get that push from the little one inside you. Listen to your heart. Follow it.

Procrastination is the murderer of so many dreams. Focus on what you want in this life. You only have this chance. I mean you only have now tomorrow is never guaranteed. So live today like its your last day under the sun. Have fun. Do what really makes you feel good. Go out with people you really love and tell them how you feel. Spoil yourself. Spend that dollar you really hustling for on yourself.

Do it for you it doesn't matter who is watching or who is listening. If its making you happy. If you don't regret it. If it doesn't cause you harm or pain. Do it for you honey!

The time is now. The place is right here Yes!! i mean right where you are. Do it now!

Happy new month!

Live! Laugh! Love!